2020年7月23日 星期四

[人際秘技] How to hang around with mentally-ill people

How to hang around with mentally-ill people:
  • Authenticity
    - Tell them about your stories with your true heart, let them understand about the real you, and you about your authentic self too.
     
  • Empathy
    - Try to understand their own stories as they listen to yours.
     
  • Have fun
    - Make harmless good jokes with them in the good moment, try to make yourself laugh and project the good feelings to people around.
     
  • Do the right things & persevere, not giving in
    - Understand that they are ill and may not speak in rational manner, if they have any irrational requests, politely and sensitively deny them. Or use your instant creativity to solve in the conversation.
     
  • Rely on God
    - Last but not least, ask God for wisdom so you don't trigger they temper and make good friendship with them, just like what Jesus would do.

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